tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2854822966178949982.post6585764649476654812..comments2024-02-23T09:22:58.799-05:00Comments on To bring Him glory...: Thoughts of a sad mommyAndy and Carihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13622299934594487940noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2854822966178949982.post-24473010954847037062009-09-18T13:24:15.812-04:002009-09-18T13:24:15.812-04:00The Cord
We are connected,
My child and I, by
An i...The Cord<br />We are connected,<br />My child and I, by<br />An invisible cord<br />Not seen by the eye.<br /><br />It's not like the cord<br />That connects us 'til birth<br />This cord can't been seen<br />By any on Earth.<br /><br />This cord does it's work<br />Right from the start.<br />It binds us together<br />Attached to my heart.<br /><br />I know that it's there<br />Though no one can see<br />The invisible cord<br />From my child to me.<br /><br />The strength of this cord<br />Is hard to describe.<br />It can't be destroyed<br />It can't be denied.<br /><br />It's stronger than any cord<br />Man could create<br />It withstands the test<br />Can hold any weight.<br /><br />And though you are gone,<br />Though you're not here with me,<br />The cord is still there<br />But no one can see.<br /><br />It pulls at my heart<br />I am bruised...I am sore,<br />But this cord is my lifeline<br />As never before.<br /><br />I am thankful that God<br />Connects us this way<br />A mother and child<br />Death can't take it away!<br /><br />Author UnknownAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2854822966178949982.post-78670097115538039342009-09-18T08:13:28.234-04:002009-09-18T08:13:28.234-04:00Just thought you might appreciate a few of the ran...Just thought you might appreciate a few of the random questions my kids asked me this morning while I was visiting your blog:<br /><br />*Is she (Caden) playing with Jesus?<br /><br />*Did Jesus give her toys?<br /><br />*Is their house in your computer?<br /><br />*Were we there before (at your house)?<br /><br />*Do they not have a dog?<br /><br />Ahhh, kids are great, aren't they? I hope you all have a great weekend. I'm praying for you.Heidi Stonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13853114107907752702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2854822966178949982.post-7852636421934810752009-09-17T20:19:47.024-04:002009-09-17T20:19:47.024-04:00I found your blog at the beginning of the summer a...I found your blog at the beginning of the summer and have felt honored to share in your young family's life. Your journey has given me hope. I pray for your family. I cry for your family. I smile at the pictures of your family. You are an inspiration to me, a middle aged woman from California, I don't know you or your family, but through the power of the internet I hope that you can feel the love, support, and prayers that are sent your way. I love your honesty. Thank you for sharing.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2854822966178949982.post-26823067449107965462009-09-15T23:00:06.706-04:002009-09-15T23:00:06.706-04:00Cari,
I've been bad about blogging too. So I&...Cari, <br />I've been bad about blogging too. So I've been waiting for your latest post. Thinking being a new Mommy kept you away from the computer. I am sad to read the real reason it's been so hard for you to write. I know words will not take away your pain, Captain is right... no parent should ever have to experience what you have gone through. A wise friend of mine once said that "how we walk through life's darkest valleys will really communicate to others what it means to believe what we believe." Your hope and faith in the promises of God that he will never leave or forsake us,ring true in everything you write. We all see God working through you and in you. I am still praying for you. I will pray for you on Sept 22nd... and ask others to do the same. Give Rigg lots of snuggles... Peace - jenGlimmerchick - Unpluggedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05122925707006743091noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2854822966178949982.post-60523489027787628012009-09-15T22:59:56.081-04:002009-09-15T22:59:56.081-04:00I found your blog through another blog (I'm a ...I found your blog through another blog (I'm a blog stalker..what can I say!) I stayed up much too late last night, reading every. single. one. of your posts. You are truly an inspiration to me...you have reminded me to soak up every single moment I have with my children--to drink them in and to marvel in each little curious thing they do. So I just wanted to thank you for that...I have been sending up prayers all day long for you and your husband (and I'll keep doing it...simply can't get ya'll off my mind)...Caden is NOT forgotten...neither are you...<br />And it is so nice to "meet" you :)<br />Kathryn FarrisKathrynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13393971874722033232noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2854822966178949982.post-68035904551756352172009-09-15T14:55:55.813-04:002009-09-15T14:55:55.813-04:00I know I've said it a thousand times, but I...I know I've said it a thousand times, but I'll say it again...<br /><br />Cari, I'm so sorry that while our family is rejoicing over Reagan's birthday each year, yours will be grieving over your precious Caden. It just doesn't seem fair. But know that WE are grieving with YOU and that YOU are welcome to rejoice with US.<br /><br />I love you, Cari. And I miss Caden too.Heidi Stonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13853114107907752702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2854822966178949982.post-60683863322390677392009-09-15T13:41:24.956-04:002009-09-15T13:41:24.956-04:00Cari...you don't know me, but I love to read y...Cari...you don't know me, but I love to read your blog. You are a great writer and I feel what you feel through your writing. I will be thinking of you next Tuesday. Lean on Andy and hug that beautiful baby boy. PS - Brooklyn, your comment said exactly what I wanted to say, too.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2854822966178949982.post-17697092788099035482009-09-14T22:35:06.739-04:002009-09-14T22:35:06.739-04:00You don't know me, but someone referred me to ...You don't know me, but someone referred me to your blog. My husband and I lost our four-month-old son, Ayden, 3 weeks ago to SIDS. Reading your words snapped me into reality. I walk in a fog some days, and today has been one of those days. This is not just a struggle for this moment; it will follow me forever. While words can't take the hurt away, the assurance of knowing we will see our children again will get us through each day. I'm encouraged to know another mother who has experienced the same loss has faith in God and His promises to reunite us with our loved ones and to see Him face to face. That day can't come soon enough....<br /><br />Praying for you....August 25th of next year is already a dreaded moment for us...<br /><br />Thinking of you.<br /><br />www.thejonesfamily52009.blogspot.comLindsayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07289549963275047672noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2854822966178949982.post-40416670632990007892009-09-14T22:15:38.437-04:002009-09-14T22:15:38.437-04:00I'm sorry! My heart breaks for you every time...I'm sorry! My heart breaks for you every time I read your blog. My stepbrother died the day before your baby girl. His brother died less than 5 years before him. My stepmother lost both her sons in less than 5 years. They were both 41, but I don't think a child's age makes it easier or harder. I watched what she went through and it's part of why your story breaks my heart. Because I know what's it like to stand beside someone crushed and broken and not be able to say or do anything to comfort them. I'm so sorry that you have to miss your baby. So very sorry.Pennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00571947128036699544noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2854822966178949982.post-6637166999429021602009-09-14T20:31:46.620-04:002009-09-14T20:31:46.620-04:00Praying right now for you from Dallas. Asking God...Praying right now for you from Dallas. Asking God to shower you with the assurance of eternity. Cari, she can see the leaves...and the snow. You guys are loved by all of us who have never met you. 9/22 - where is your sting? Caden is fully known and alive.Beckhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01766427693918249626noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2854822966178949982.post-53895691036453808292009-09-14T17:26:01.143-04:002009-09-14T17:26:01.143-04:00Praying for you Cari.Praying for you Cari.Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03280603498148788491noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2854822966178949982.post-18866402143098465482009-09-14T17:10:10.809-04:002009-09-14T17:10:10.809-04:00Know that our family is thinking of yours as that ...Know that our family is thinking of yours as that day approaches. I don't imagine there is a "right" way to spend a day like that. Just the way that is right for you & God. Praying for you from CO!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17043585148664431337noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2854822966178949982.post-17792222033978640202009-09-14T16:03:01.156-04:002009-09-14T16:03:01.156-04:00Crying with you and not looking forward to Sept. 2...Crying with you and not looking forward to Sept. 22nd at all.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2854822966178949982.post-17704517753930420722009-09-14T16:00:33.218-04:002009-09-14T16:00:33.218-04:00Your question of what to do on the day of death is...Your question of what to do on the day of death is a hard one. I know parents who send up balloons or go through pictures and videos.<br /><br />We have had two anniversaries now and for us, the answer was not to do anything special. We didn't want to "honor" that day, I guess. <br /><br />The right thing to do is the thing that feels right to YOUR family.<br /><br />((hugs))<br /><br />SusanSusanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16221291286533081990noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2854822966178949982.post-34300658555508916892009-09-14T15:50:38.031-04:002009-09-14T15:50:38.031-04:00You and Andy have been on my mind and in my prayer...You and Andy have been on my mind and in my prayers. I remember Caden often. And I come here to "check" on you all. I have nothing I can give but my prayers so I do. Often. Praying for comfort in the days ahead, strength to withstand the storm and peace in the nights. May He lift you to a safe place and cover you with His mighty hand.Bethanyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14830324269477826545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2854822966178949982.post-37214832932149343102009-09-14T15:21:17.039-04:002009-09-14T15:21:17.039-04:00God bless you and your hubby at this difficult tim...God bless you and your hubby at this difficult time!Lindsay from South africanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2854822966178949982.post-2894691796856192772009-09-14T15:00:41.569-04:002009-09-14T15:00:41.569-04:00I just wanted to leave a comment. I have been read...I just wanted to leave a comment. I have been reading your blog since you were pregnant with Baby Rigg. Although we do not know eachother I just want to tell you how strong you are. You are a wonderful writer. You really put everything in perspective and have helped me to not take for granted the days that I have with my little ones. <br />May God give you the strength that you need to get through these next weeks and until you get to see your Caden again.<br /><br />With Love,<br />BrooklynBrooklynnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2854822966178949982.post-5929566043582864152009-09-14T14:30:02.964-04:002009-09-14T14:30:02.964-04:00I'm haunted too...and I didn't even see wh...I'm haunted too...and I didn't even see what you did. Sometimes I just can't pull it together. You are so strong. I can't stop thinking that the last time I saw her was at mom and Di's birthday, and I regret every minute that I didn't stop myself from being sad about some guy and spend it with her.Elizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07868306664539705082noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2854822966178949982.post-3411727276286198082009-09-14T13:20:12.464-04:002009-09-14T13:20:12.464-04:00Praying for you!Praying for you!Reneehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09254084473269001876noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2854822966178949982.post-2494473260598508012009-09-14T12:16:41.526-04:002009-09-14T12:16:41.526-04:00Praying for you during these next difficult weeks....Praying for you during these next difficult weeks. Praying God's comfort upon you.Nansie (Ahlgrim) Whittnoreply@blogger.com